Friday, April 15, 2016

An Open Letter to NPH Volunteers from a Grown Pequeño

By Jonathan, Class of 2016 (in his own English!). This post originally appeared here on The Seattle Institute: NPH International blog.

Dear Volunteers,

I would like to personally thank all of you for your commitment to NPH.   I truly believe that both the children and the great family of NPH are also grateful for you.

I would also like to express my thanks to Vicky who manages all the volunteers that make NPH feel like a family.  Your ability to recruit people to volunteer in NPH and place them in the appropriate country and house as role models for our children who need to be prepared to live their lives beyond NPH is much appreciated.

Our volunteers have the opportunity to share their talents and knowledge while serving children. Often volunteers are highly trained and skilled individuals whom NPH leverages for our children as nurses, teachers, and therapists working in different areas where the house needs, also including childcare.

Volunteers always bring new ideas and different perspectives in order to help improve our family.  To volunteer with NPH is one of the greatest gifts for our family.  Thank you for the things you do for us.  You spend time with us for protection and love, and sacrifice time away from your family, thank you infinitely, dear volunteers.  I just wish that when it’s my turn to support my neighbors, that it is half of what you were within our family.
No matter how much time passes without a visit, or how far you go, you can be sure that on your return to the family of NPH, I [we] will welcome you with abundant love and hugs.

Congratulations for the great time you shared, the hard work, and thanks because this program would not be possible without your generous support.

Sincerely,
Jonathan, NPH Guatemala
 

 
Editor’s Note: In October, Vicky, NPH USA International Volunteer Coordinator, facilitated a workshop called “The NPH Volunteer Experience” with the students, in which they learned about the logistics of the program and spent time thinking about what makes a good volunteer for our family.  It was after that day and re-connecting with many former NPH volunteers here in Seattle that Jonathan decided upon this topic for his blog post. Former volunteers in the Northwest have made significant contributions to the beginnings of this program as well, and we are so grateful that your love and support continues after you return “home”!

Wednesday, April 13, 2016

National Volunteer Week: THANK YOU / GRACIAS / MESI to our International Volunteers

It's National Volunteer Week and we are pleased to introduce the 29 people from the U.S. who are serving at the NPH homes.


Allie Goldberg, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in July 2015

Allie is from Redondo Beach, CA. She is serving as a P.E. Teacher.





Amanda Gingras, NPH DR
Began volunteering in June 2015

To be loved by a child is possibly one of the greatest feelings in the world. Every day as I walk down the streets of NPH, I am greeted by a dozen or more voices calling out my name and countless hugs, even if I've only been away at the house or the office for no more than thirty minutes. Children don't need you to be perfect, they just want you to spend time with them and show them you care, even if it means making a total fool of yourself learning a last minute dance routine or singing the same song you only know half the words to over and over for a week.

I've gotten to be involved in a wide variety of activities here in the home, but my favorite part of life here is the one on one time I have with some of the children. Whether it is a solo game of cards where not a word is said, a brief hug on the return walk from school, or a half hour long heart to heart, these are the moments I treasure most. Being a part of this NPH family has been a gift and blessing, and I love each and every one of the many hearts I have had the joy of meeting and getting to know this year.


Anna Hester, NPH Peru
Began volunteering in January 2015

Just a few months into my second year at NPH Peru, I am constantly reminded that I made the right decision to extend. Whether it is listening the voices of the children as they sing during mass, or having longer and more extensive conversations with the some of the young adults. I love being Tía Anna! My heart is full and I am so thankful to have had this opportunity to become apart of the NPH Peru family. As Father Pedro Arrupe said, "Fall in love, stay in love, and it will decide everything."


Anna Gunter, NPH Dominican Republic
Began volunteering in June 2014
After 20 months of being at NPH, I have to say that extending my time was one of the best choices I’ve made. I have become a true older sister to the girls in my house and formed bonds that will last a lifetime. They’ve taught me that simply being present is one of the most valuable things in life. A favorite quote of mine that explains my relationship to the kids, NPH, and the DR is, “Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs. The ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile, and who love you no matter what.”


Elizabeth Lanham, NPH Guatemala
Began volunteering in January 2016

"Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not."
-Dr. Seuss



Emma Lane, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in July 2015

Emma is from Lake Forest, IL, and is serving as a Caregiver and Coordinator of the Women's Empowerment Group.




Emily Poynton, NPH Mexico
Began volunteering in July 2015

Coming up quickly on the end of my time at NPH Mexico, the lesson I will take home with me is that it is the little things that let someone know you care: When you get or give an unexpected hug. When someone tells you that they don't want to lie to you because they respect you. When you ask the siblings how their trip home went. When you sit making faces and animal noises with a girl in an acting competition for an hour because she is looking for a distraction from her broken heart.

I've always known that it is the little things that count, because without the little things big displays of affection are just that: displays. But I will never again take for granted the impact a smile paired with your name can make. And I will never forget that I want to be a person who gives to others the joy and consolation of being known and appreciated, rather than someone who makes others feel unseen, even by accident or through carelessness. It has meant the world to me on hard days. It has meant the world to me on wonderful days. And that is just the impact of greeting someone by name. Imagine the possibilities when you dare to be bigger and more intentional in showing your love! But always, always with the consistency of the little, daily things to back it up.


Emily Siegler, NPH Dominican Republic
Began volunteering in January 2015

As a speech and language therapist here in the Dominican Republic, I have seen my fair share students struggling in school, a lot of which is due to their ability to pay attention in class. One boy I have worked with for the past year, struggles exactly in this way. However, I proudly will say that he has been my biggest success! Several months ago I was helping him with his homework, he could not even begin to write the numbers 1-100. After some focused attention and explanation in therapy, and of course with some practice, he independently now can reach 100, and even more so he can name all the numbers correctly! This may seem like a small feat but in reality it will affect most of his math skills from here on out and absolutely has affected his confidence. Moments like these, where I see the real fruit of my work here keep me going for weeks. I am reminded that these children have a great capacity to learn and when we give them the focused attention and explanation they need big changes happen. This is what I live for here at NPH.


Jaclyn Sisto, NPH Mexico
Began volunteering in July 2015

Jaclyn is from Carlton, OR, and is serving as a Caregiver/Special Education Teacher’s Assistant.




Jason Abbott, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in January 2016

I'm so grateful to have become a part of the NPH community. I went on two NPH trips to the Mexico and Guatemala homes while in high school and now have returned to work as a volunteer in Honduras. Recently, the Honduran home celebrated Father's Day and along with the tios (caregivers) and other men on the ranch, I was included in the celebration. It means so much to these children to have compassionate and loving volunteers in their lives. I continue to be amazed each day by these boys and girls and am excited for the things they will teach me.


Karl Groneman, NPH Bolivia
Began volunteering in November 2014 at NPH Honduras






Katherine Theis, NPH Mexico
Began volunteering in January 2016

“Preach the Gospel always, and if necessary, use words!” - Pope Francis. I have only been at NPH for a few months, but my favorite part of the day is interacting with the children. Even if we don't always understand each other we still manage to have a great time playing a game, watching a movie, working on homework, or having a conversation. I also love how helpful and patient they have been with helping me learning Spanish. Overall, the hugs, the smiles, and the relationships built so far have made all my days here. I am really looking forward to what the next several months bring.


Kevin Mee, NPH Mexico
Began volunteering in July 2015

What I like about being a volunteer is the glow on the kids from another section when we are playing with each other, the only words that I can think of for this is pure joy. I’ve had to learn how to be more organized in my planning, be more of an authority figure, not always laid back, and obviously learn more Spanish.

My favorite story happened right before Christmas: It was Christmas Eve and I was getting ready to leave my section for the night and go back to the States the next morning for a couple of weeks. I just finished yelling, "Good night and Merry Christmas" to my boys (aged 11-17) as they were watching a movie; this kid came up to me and said, "Kevin, you know we love you right?" He gave me a hug and said, "Merry Christmas. See you in January after your vacation. We will miss you.”


Kyle Lansden, NPH Dominican Republic
Began volunteering in June 2014

As my time here is coming to a close, I'm quickly realizing how grateful I am to have spent nearly two years with the kids here at NPH Dominican Republic. The laughs, the tears, the successes, and the struggles have all contributed to a transforming and life-changing experience. I have learned just as much, if not more, from the kids as they have hopefully learned from me. My work here has even helped me decide to pursue education as a career, and I'll be starting grad school this summer. Without a doubt, I wouldn't be where I am today if it weren't for my time here in the DR.


Laretia Williams, NPH Dominican Republic
Began volunteering in June 2015

Coming into NPH and into the house of 16 uniquely beautiful teenage and 20 something year olds, I told myself, "give what you can, when you can, while you can." Give the time you can, the advice you can, the hugs you can, the love you can. And that's what I've been doing. But receiving their time, their advice, their hugs, their love have been even more marvelous.


Lauren Dominguez, NPH Guatemala
Began volunteering in July 2015

My experience at NPH Guatemala has been amazing. I am now part of a family that used to be 300 strangers. Some of my favorite times are spend in my section of 14 girls ages 9-11. They are so sweet and caring. Little things like walking around holding hands, or making sure no one gets left out of goodnight hugs, are a few of my favorite moments here. For me it is those constant little things that make my experience here so wonderful.



Leah Yode, NPH Guatemala
Began volunteering in July 2015

Nothing gives me more joy than to be around the kids and volunteers and hear their stories. I consider myself very lucky to be part of such a loving and caring team of volunteers who seek to become global citizens.




Maggie Edlebeck, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in July 2015

NPH Honduras has completely ruined my life in the best way possible. A piece of my heart will always belong to my students, chicas ponderosas (the “Powerful Girls” program) and my household of girls called Hermanas de Jesus. I am thankful for nights spent dancing to Bruno Mars, straightening hair for quinceaneras, studying for English tests, and making cookies.




Margaret McIntee, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in July 2014

Over the past two years I have volunteered on the ranch at NPH Honduras working in the surgery center. I really get the best of both worlds, serving the people of the surrounding community and making strong bonds with the kids on the ranch! Although the surgery center transforms many lives through surgeries and follow-up care, I think the best impact it has is inspiring the kids. Our medical director, Dr. Merlin Antúnez was one of the first pequeños to grow up in NPH Honduras and now he's a great surgeon. The kids see him and think to themselves "Maybe I can do that too if I work hard enough and focus in school." It helps show that kids that greatness lies within all of them, they just have to have faith, work hard, and know that we all have faith in them.


Mark Miller, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in January 2016

I love that I've had the opportunity at NPH Honduras to work and interact with such a huge variety of kids. I spend my days with the oldest students here on the ranch as the English teacher for grades 7-9, and my evenings and weekends are spent with the boys of Casa Suyapa, ranging in age from about five to eight. It's so much fun to get to know each individual kid and learn how they're unique--their interests, their personalities, their senses of humor, their needs, their past experiences, their goals, and so on. This photo was taken on Casa Suyapa's recent 5-day trip to the beach, and that was such a great bonding experience for all of us!

Megan Landers, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in January 2015

NPH creates a safe space for kids to be kids, to grow and learn, to make mistakes, to love and be loved. It really is an indescribable experience to be a part of the day-to-day lives of the children here. To understand what it is to be a part of NPH is to experience the beauty of our homes, the warmth and love of a hug, the magnitude of a simple conversation about the day. Every day brings new frustrations and difficulties but it also brings new opportunities and the chance to make a difference.


Michael and Kara Lyons, NPH Guatemala
Began volunteering in January 2016

Volunteering at NPH Guatemala has been an incredible experience. The past few months have been challenging at times but it has been exciting, full of positive life changes, and most definitely rewarding. The staff and children have made us feel like part of the family from day one. The best part of our day is when we can take a break from work and interact with the children. One thing you learn quickly is that the easiest remedy for a slow day is to go visit the baby house.


Michael Wechter, NPH Bolivia
Began volunteering in August 2015

Mike is from Saginaw, MI, and is serving as a Music Teacher and in Maintenance.




Monica Meeks, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in January 2016

My life as a volunteer at NPH Honduras is crazy, busy, and beautiful. At 9 am, I might be scrubbing in on a surgery as part of my job as the coordinator of the Holy Family Surgery Center, snipping stitches for Dr. Antunez as he sings "Hello" by Adele. At 2 pm, I'll be calling a patient who's been waiting for a very long time to be seen by an orthopedic specialist - even with my imperfect Spanish, I can understand the gratitude in his voice. At 6 pm I'll go hang out with the girls in my “household” - the only thing they'll want more than for me to draw them a picture of the "Minions" cartoons is to have a dance party to the tunes of Justin Bieber and Enrique Iglesias. That night I'll come home to my fellow volunteers, feeling exhausted, fulfilled, and insanely lucky to have the opportunity to be here. And at 6 am the next morning I'll be ready to do it all over again and enjoy another day in my lovely “vida catracha”, or “Honduran Life.”


Patrick Laird, NPH Honduras
Began volunteering in July 2015

Patrick is from West Bend, WI, and is serving as the Surgery Center Coordinator.




The Gomez Family, NPH Nicaragua
Began volunteering at NPH Nicaragua in January 2016 after having spent a year at NPH Honduras from July 2013 to July 2014.


Vanessa Gates, NPH Peru
Began volunteering in February 2016

Vanessa is from Englewood, CO, and is serving as a Medical Assistant.

Monday, April 11, 2016

I owe so much to the children of NPH as they brought a gleaming light into the darkest point of my life...


Below is a reflection from sponsor, volunteer, and NW Associate Board Member, Bailey Bangerter, who shares with us about her amazing experience at NPH Mexico.

Joining NPH Mexico in 2011 as the home's Communications Officer (CO), I was stepping into a life-changing whirlwind of events that have led me to where I am today. Having the dual job as CO and mentor to the high school students, I gained immediate insight into the tireless work that goes on behind the scenes to run the organization, as well as the ins and outs of the daily life of the children. While interviewing children to feature their stories on the website, it was difficult for me to grasp the depths of the tragedies and trials they had faced at such young ages. It was a privilege to hear the stories of our children as the home journalist, although it was an even deeper honor when the children opened up and shared their lives with me as a friend that had gained their hard-earned trust.


Before coming to NPH, many of these children were shuffled from one temporary shelter to the next, separated from their siblings. I am proud to be a part of an organization that gives children a true sense of stability and family-life. When they join NPH, they know that this is their “home”, where they can finally be liberated from the fear that they might be without education, food or shelter. I fully believe that NPH aids in the goal to break the cycle of poverty of the world.


NPH owes its success and longevity in large part to the organization's founder, our beloved Father William Wasson. He laid down the strong foundations of love, forgiveness and a merciful path, that the home continues to uphold. Father Wasson once said, “I believe that if we’re going to change the world at all, I believe that we have to start with the children, and we have to start in changing their hearts”.
 
I saw firsthand the good in these children and the depths of their hearts when I was forced to cut my yearlong volunteer commitment short for a family emergency. I was notified of my mother’s sudden decline in health one day, and I was scheduled to fly back to Seattle the very next morning.  With the abrupt announcement of my unfortunate circumstances during bedtime prayers, I was overwhelmed with tearful hugs of well wishes, heartfelt notes scribbled in seconds-flat, and a few tokens of remembrances, including small stuffed animals, necklaces and crosses.

 
In the ensuing months, I devoted much of my time to my mother, staking out UW Medical Center as our new primary residence. I was torn between being selfishly devastated to have been robbed of my final few months at NPH and being selflessly grounded in the every day struggle of supporting my mother. My soul was overwhelmed to hear that the high school girls were praying for my mother’s recovery during their nightly bedtime prayer circle. My mother actually recuperated to a point that she was able to transition into the outpatient setting. I attribute these few months out of the hospital partly to the prayers and unfailing support of my family at NPH. 


I owe so much to the children of NPH as they brought a gleaming light into the darkest point of my life. My mother, arguably the most beautiful person inside and out, passed away 3 months after I left NPH. The only factors that kept my spirit afloat were the love and encouragement from my three sisters, my close friends, and my new family of pequeños, fellow volunteers and staff at NPH Mexico. I was able to just hang on, with the anticipation of visiting my kids in Mexico every 6 months for graduations in July and Christmas celebrations in December. I only accepted jobs that permitted these semi-annual vacations and all my spare change went to my flights and travel costs.


Five years later, I’m still devoting much of my spare time to this organization, as an active member of the NW Associate Board, a proud Godmother of 13-year-old Rodolfo and a mentor of Irene, one of the six impressive students participating in the yearlong immersion program here in Seattle. Becoming a part of NPH has enriched my life in so many ways and has had a greater impact on my sense of self than I could have ever imagined.

 
As those who devote themselves to service often come to realize, when you set out with the idealistic goal of “making the world a better place” and “helping the less fortunate”, you end up investing in yourself more than anything. Through all the trials and challenges, you leave the experience as a stronger, more accepting and loving individual, with the life-long mission to work towards a more peaceful society. As father Wasson once said, “We are all brothers and sisters and we all must care for one another.” I am forever indebted to my brothers and sisters at NPH for caring for me over the past 5 years.